it helps if you know the back story...talking to an expat mum yesterday, and she was calculating down to the month when she should get pregnant again in order to make the most of her maternity leave here yet still have the baby in Australia when they move home.



and I said something like "you can't be sure it'll happen when you want" and she told me that every time they'd tried, they'd got pg. that month. and if I didn't know she'd had a 20 week miscarriage, and that she knew about my IVF so I could also pick up the slightly apologetic tone (only slightly), I'd have hated her, wouldn't I?